ABOUT ELLEN

Hi There!  Thanks for stopping by. I wanted to take this opportunity to tell you a little bit about myself.  I have worked in a sales role for over 25 years building relationships with my clients and co-workers. However, it was always my desire to help others that drove me to become a Relationship Coach and work with individuals looking to make a positive impact on their life. I especially enjoyed speaking with single women throughout my career and listening to their stories about their relationships or lack there of.  And here's why...


“when you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you”

-Lolly Daskal   


I was living "The Single Life" for over 25 years in New York City. Going home alone for the holidays, trying to figure out who I would bring along as my +1 every time I got an invitation in the mail became too familiar.  I would try the Match.com's, the blind dates, single events and nothing ever seemed to work out.  If it did it was short lived.  As a lot of single independent NYC women do, I spent many nights in bars meeting up with my girlfriends asking each other why WE were still single. We were always wondering what WE were doing wrong.  Sometimes I would meet other single women out on their own and listen to their stories over a glass of wine or 2 or 3.  It amazed me how many fabulous women were out there looking for love.  

I always had a large network of girlfriends. I was lucky like that. We would go on vacations and then I'd come home to an empty apartment with nobody to share my experiences with.  I truly knew what it was like to feel lonely in a city with so many people.  That was until I met the love of my life at 47 years old.  I was married 2 years later. I know.....that's a long time to wait!  If I knew 20 years ago what I learned from my coach I would have saved myself a lot of grief over being single.  I wasted so much time in the wrong relationships with men that I thought I was going to change.  Sound familiar?  That was until I started to adapt new ways of thinking and acting.  Once I finally understood what was holding me back from getting what I wanted I was able to attract the types of people I wanted in my life.  It's amazing how just a small tweak in my attitude and energy really made a difference in how I presented myself.  

It really was all about what I was putting "out there" and who I was attracting over and over again into my life. The crazy part was that I had no idea how to get away from this routine until all the advice that I had gotten from my coach suddenly made sense and started to show results.  Now I have decided it is time for me to share my wealth of knowledge with others so here I am...A Relationship Coach.  It makes perfect sense that this is what I should be doing because I really do "get it".  I specialize in coaching single/divorced individuals who are looking to be in an emotionally supportive relationship with a significant other.  I will share the tools with you that I have learned that will allow you to remove those blocks that are holding you back from getting what you want and create the relationship that works for YOU.

  • Do you ever wonder why YOU are still single?
  • Do you attract the same type of person over and over again?
  • Are you staying in the wrong relationship just because you are afraid of being alone?
  • Are you hoping you can change the person you are in a relationship with?
  • Do you ever feel like you will never meet anybody?